A Story of Unconditional Love – which may help You. A friend of mine who grew up with an abusive and alcoholic father, shared that even after he passed, his unwanted energy was still around her heart and her childhood home. She wanted it to go away, so she could move on with her life. She asked if I could help. I’m pretty open to trying anything and well, I know who we are. Her father’s childhood was plagued with loss, abandonment and feeling unwanted. We discovered emotions of powerlessness, hopelessness, feelings of lack of self-worth and self-hatred. We found these just by feeling into his consciousness and story. His inner turmoil and anger was projected to his children; he was especially harsh to my friend’s sister. In adulthood, his alcohol-fueled communication was increasingly cruel. It seemed like he was a person desperately seeking punishment, but there was something deeper. After his passing in 2019, two years earlier to my interaction with her, my friend had worked with others to clear the house of his energy, but the memories of her harsh upbringing, housed within those walls, would not stay cleared. Two years of attempting to heal and clear the family home had ended up with no permanent results.
Another perspective and questions came up…
- What if we gave him what he had been missing his entire life? Acceptance. Unconditional love. Compassion. Inclusion.
- What if what he needed to receive was what we needed to give?
- Could there be a win-win situation that would balance both our karmas?
During a meditation/channeling, he was invited into my friend’s heart and she was able to see him as a young man, then a teenager, then a child, then a toddler, and then visualized him being cradled by her with unconditional love. She now the Mother and him the Child. Now, the visualization saw him become a newborn, then younger, smaller, lighter…eventually into a seed and then into the bright spark of pure Soul. In her own words, there was an organically breathtaking release when she realized that that was the only way he could return to Source, by allowing him to go all the way back down to innocence and Love. It was remarkable. She explained to me that prior to this visioning, she and others had been encouraging her Dad to go up into the Light, as an extension of his passing at age 100. She had no idea that this man had so much hurt and dark energy that he could only return to Source by going backwards and shedding and reversing the years of his own abuse.
The only credit I’ll accept on this is that I’ve integrated enough of my own childhood traumas and embraced my true nature to welcome “this” in. THIS being a consciousness or perspective of consciousness that invites a view that says “things are not always what they seem”. Instead of continuing to blame the bully, consider the bully at one time was light and love just like you. Consider what had to happen to transform a light like that into darkness.